THE RESULT MENACE......

Ever since our birth we have started learning and surely will continue to learn until we die....but the process of learning now has changed a lot as to times during our childhood...In childhood we use to learn new things without fears in our mind, without the fear of errors, without the fear of being right or wrong and the most important "WITHOUT THE FEAR OF RESULTS"...

My 5th semester result is just going to get out in a span of two days from now and i can sense a typical "result phobia" among my subordinates and my colleagues.Even my cute girlfriend's face turns pale when its comes to results....the phenomenon is not only relevant with an average scoring student but is also relevant among those who are at the top....both the class of people fear from their results being declared.......But my conscience always asks me questions as to why their is so much panic and fear about our results????The answer of the above question lies in just a five letter word "GREED" .

Human beings has always feared from results weather its of their board exams, weather its iit jee, weather its semester results or any sort of examinations....because the burden of our expectations make us weak, make us panic and launches hundreds of questions in our mind and consequently makes us stressed...its our greed to fetch things, to achieve new and better positions in life that forces us to prejudge our results....but for a wise person "HIS EFFORTS ARE HIS RESULTS". therefore we must all try to be wise and stop running after things which are not in our hand because our "RESULT IS NOT IN OUR HAND". Its the almighty who has to grant us the result...our sole duty is just to put endless efforts dedicated to our LORD...and we shall do it whole heartedly.......

In our childhood we learnt things without the fear of being a failure, without the burden of our expectations..and that is why we never feared of learning English alphabets, roman numerals or counting because we had no practical knowledge about the success- failure funda's.

Once we practice that we don't have to link our expectations with our efforts , the "result phobia" Will automatically vanish from our lives and we will live our life peacefully,without burden of our expectations. And most important without fear of being a failure....because

"WHERE MIND IS WITHOUT FEAR, THE HEAD IS HELD HIGH"

LORD KRISHNA SAYS....

i read a very beautiful message i got yesterday it goes like this:

LORD KRISHNA SAYS: tu karta woh hai jo tu chahta hai,

par hota woh hai jo mai chahta hun

tu karne woh lag ja jo mai chahta hun,

fir hoga woh jo tu chahta hai...

Now let me share one of my experience with you.Since i am an engineering student of a so called reputed college which organizes its fest every year and compels the student to come out with their talent and head various committees which are organised for proper functioning of the fest, consequently i went for the interview for the post of subhead in redressal committee which addresses the problems faced in fest by different participating colleges.

After my interview which was good enough the human nature in me asked whether i m gonna make it or not?? the question haunted me more and more as i saw more and more people going in inside the interviewers room and later i started even listening rumors of politics being played by some students...they were running here and there buttering the faculty in-charge to get to the post, some even went to the extent of offering favors to get it.But i did nothing sort of, i just sat quietly and prayed " lord i just need to get through the interview cos i deserve to be at that post.I want to help people.I will put my best".....

The very next day came the result from the board and even to my surprise i was appointed as the new subhead of redressal committee for the annual festival zest 2010....and that too without any approach and buttering to any of the board members or faculty in charge......and there were those who did their best were now nowhere, none of them made it.......because perhaps my approach was the biggest one... i approached directly to my lord...

It is very true that whenever we face some trouble or we need something we approach first to our family members,then relatives and even then if we still don't find a way out we go to our friends but we go to our lord at the last when we think that nothing will come our way and the only option left out to us is to pray in fact i'll rather say to beg...and then when we don't get it we blame our lord.

but if we go the other way round..we should directly approach our lord our almighty as the first priority not as the last cos only he is the creator and destroyer...

i appeal all human beings that they should stop living with the myth that if they have certain powers just by being at a post or sitting in a particular chair which people raise their eyebrows to, then they can harm anyone or benefit anyone with their powers as they have forgot there is only one person who can create and destroy in this universe THAT IS MY LORD............

I FEEL SO SMALL .....

hello guys this is my first post so i am new to this blog i have created my account in January but i m writing it now because i took my blog for granted until the inner self forced me to write something useful for the readers.

I FELT SO SMALL i watched the movie MY NAME IS KHAN recently with my girlfriend though for many youngsters the thought of watching the movie means something else but let me clear it that for me movies play a very important role in my life they make me learn a lot for me they are not only source of entertainment but also a good source of inspiration.they mentor me in different situations in life......

I was amazed of shahrukh khan's acting because he acted like he acted never before, though nor i am a die heart fan of him neither i dislike him but his performance in the film made me think that is this world really a good place to live in???? The film truly shows that an autistic person can understand and differentiate between good and bad but we who by the god's grace are so called normal unable to understand and differentiate whats good and whats bad...thats because he applies in life what he has learnt but we make our own rules....we live as we like.....we spend 2000 bucks on a pair of shoes just for a name WOODLANDS or ADIDAS but never bothered to think that is it really worth to spend it so much in a country where people don't have bread to eat and clothes to wear at a particular time?????? And the statistics shows that our economy is going stronger day by day ( what a joke may be this is also something created by the govt as a new rule to show development) WE CAN'T DEVELOP until we stop fighting within ourselves with each other for baseless issues...in reality its the other way round we have become autistic cos we ignore every wrong thing being done to anyone, thinking that its not personal but we forget THAT EVERY DAMN THING IS PERSONAL.They are our people we have to look after them above the fact that he or she is Muslim or a black or white.......but we kill in a fit of rage that is what is all left with us.THE BRITISHERS divided us and ruled us and so considering old is gold our politicians are doing the same..they divide us from each other sometimes as Hindu-Muslim and sometimes as north Indians and maharashtrians.its time that WE SHOULD WAKE UP.... cos an eye for an eye leaves only the whole world blinded........

That is why i FEEL SO SMALL that i cant do anything to save the human race and human beings from destroying humanity within themselves all i can do is pray to my lord.........